Toilet training

A good time to start toilet training is usually when children are around two to two-and-a-half, but every child is different — some just need a little longer.

It also helps to begin when life is calm and there aren’t big changes happening, like a new baby or a holiday. You don’t need to wait for your child to say they’re ready, but there are some signs that can help you know when the time is right.

Your child may be ready if they:

• can get on and off the potty or toilet (with a step or trainer seat)
• stay dry for a couple of hours
• usually poo around the same time each day
• notice when they’ve had a wee or poo

ERIC is a national charity dedicated to improving children’s bowel and bladder health. Their mission is to reduce the impact of continence problems on children and their families.

ERIC uses an evidence-based three step ‘Let's Go Potty’ approach. It begins with preparation to use the potty, next is practising potty skills, before eventually stopping using nappies as your child gains confidence.

Almost all children can learn to be clean and dry. Children with special needs, including delayed development and physical disabilities, may take a little longer and need more support. However, the process you need to follow is the same. You will find information and advice on the ERIC website.

• You don’t need fancy equipment - a basic potty or a child’s toilet seat with a step is plenty.
• Try to make the potty part of everyday life by keeping it where your child can see and reach it.
• Popping them on the potty after waking, eating or drinking often works well.
• Praise them for sitting, even if nothing happens.
• Stay consistent with anyone else who cares for your child, like grandparents or nursery.
• Accidents will happen, and that’s okay.
• Watch for signs they need to go, like fidgeting or funny faces and guide them to the potty.